Kishkindha Kand · Chapter 23
Friendship with Sugriv
The story so far
Hanuman has recognised Ram and carried him and Lakshman on his shoulders to Sugriv.
Hanuman gathered wood and lit a fire. Taking as their witness, Ram and Sugriv walked around it and became friends. The promise was simple: one friend's joy and sorrow would be the other's too.
Sugriv told them that some days earlier a demon had carried a weeping woman across the sky. She had tied some jewellery in a cloth and dropped it. Seeing the jewels, Ram's eyes filled with tears. Lakshman said: I don't know the armlets or earrings, but these anklets are surely hers, for I bowed at her feet every day.
Then Sugriv told his own story. Once a demon called Mayavi fought Bali and fled into a cave. Bali followed him in. After many days, seeing blood flow out of the cave, Sugriv thought his brother was dead and sealed the cave's mouth with a rock.
But Bali came back alive. He believed Sugriv had betrayed him to take the throne. He beat Sugriv, drove him out, and even took his wife Ruma. Since then Sugriv had hidden on Rishyamuk, which Bali could not enter because of the sage Matang's curse.
Sugriv was not fully sure of Ram's strength, because Bali was mighty. So Ram shot a single arrow that pierced seven huge trees in a row. Seeing this, Sugriv's fear vanished and he held Ram's feet.
जे न मित्र दुख होहिं दुखारी। तिन्हहि बिलोकत पातक भारी॥
Those who are not pained by a friend's pain: even looking at them is a great wrong.
— Ramcharitmanas, Kishkindha Kand
A lesson for today
True friendship is between equals: you stand by me in my trouble and I stand by you in yours. And sometimes trust has to be earned by showing it.
All chapters
- 1How the Ramayan Began: Valmiki and Narad
- 2Dashrath's Yagya and the Birth of the Four Brothers
- 3Vishwamitra and the Fall of Tadaka
- 4Ahalya Set Free
- 5Sita's Swayamvar and Shiv's Bow
- 6The Anger of Parshuram
- 7The Coronation Plans and Manthara
- 8Kaikeyi's Two Boons
- 9Ram Leaves for the Forest
- 10The Boatman's Love: Crossing the Ganga
- 11The Death of King Dashrath
- 12Bharat's Love and Sacrifice
- 13Bharat Meets Ram: The Sacred Sandals
- 14The Blessings of Atri and Anasuya
- 15Through the Dandak Forest to Panchavati
- 16Shurpanakha
- 17The Battle with Khar and Dushan
- 18Maarich and the Golden Deer
- 19Sita Is Taken
- 20Jatayu's Sacrifice
- 21Shabari's Berries
- 22Ram Meets Hanuman
- 23Friendship with Sugriv
- 24The Fall of Bali
- 25The Search Parties and Sampati
- 26The Decision to Cross the Ocean
- 27Surasa and Simhika
- 28Hanuman Enters Lanka
- 29Sita in the Ashok Vatika
- 30Hanuman Gives Ram's Ring
- 31The Ashok Vatika Destroyed, and Akshay Kumar
- 32The Brahmastra and Ravan's Court
- 33Lanka in Flames
- 34Return with the Chudamani
- 35Vibhishan Seeks Refuge
- 36Building Ram Setu
- 37Angad, the Envoy
- 38The War Begins
- 39Lakshman Struck, and the Sanjeevani
- 40Kumbhakarna
- 41The Fall of Meghnad
- 42The Fall of Ravan
- 43Sita's Return and the Trial by Fire
- 44The Return to Ayodhya
- 45Ram's Coronation
- 46Ram Rajya
- 47Valmiki's Ashram and the Birth of Luv and Kush
- 48Luv and Kush Sing the Ramayan
- 49Sita Returns to the Earth